Why does my man make me unhappy?

Many men start of with love in their hearts for their wives or girlfriends but this can very quickly turn to a kind of hate where the man just wants to ridicule and upset his wife. This will inevitably make the woman think he is purposely trying to make her unhappy. This is partly true but to understand why this would occur when this once great guy decided that you were the one in the beginning stages of your romance. Some men tend to aggravate their wives, making them feeling unhappy, if they too are feeling unhappy.

 

In order to discover why a man could be unhappy with his woman, you need to look at your past. If you were loyal to him in the beginning stages and made yourself pretty for him then this showed your pride in your man. If however, a few years down the line, he is not living up to what you want him to be or he loses his job or has trouble with his health he will become grouchy and this grouchiness will end up being the catalyst which in turn will make him make you unhappy. How do we counteract this?

 

We need to try and keep him happy and in turn he needs to do the same for you. After sex and whilst he still flutters inside you, you can make him promise to something each time, this may be a way of communicating what you want from him. Men’s minds are very pro-active in listening after intercourse. You have them right in front of you and you have given them what they desire so they’re ears are open. You should concentrate on prettying yourself up like you wear on your first date and wearing sexier clothes including some sexy lingerie. Things need to change so if you make a couple of changes for him and he does for you too in the long run the relationship may become more happier. If you make him happy this hopefully means he will make you happier with general subtle after sex bedtime hints from you about things he can do to change his ways.

How can I seduce my man back?

If your man becomes bored and he looks as if he is about to stray or maybe he already has then you need to get out you secret weapons. We are not talking about popping your breast out of your brassiere. We are talking more on the lines of pull your man back in like reeling in a big marlin on the high seas. You need to re-seduce him. He needs to know that you want him back. He needs to know that you desire him and that you are still his number one fan.

 

We all need a little seduction from time to time but if you are about to lose your lover or husband you need to pull out all the stops and get yourself some kind of seduction kit. What do we mean by seduction kit? Well, most women possibly think, seduction kit, some aromatherapy candles and and some massage oils and that’s it. This may be a woman’s idea of a seduction kit but for a man he wants something a little more. A woman’s seduction kit may work for a little while but as many women know after a massage they then hand the massage oil to their man. Their man places his oily muscular hands on his gal and massages and caresses her and gets highly excited ready for what he thinks is a sexual feast and then he turns his lady on to her back only to see that his highly sexed masseuse is now a sleeping oily beauty. For this reason stay clear of the massage for a seduction kit. However, what you do need are nice aromas, so don’t be afraid to place a few well positioned candles in certain areas of your seduction room.

 

In your seduction kit, you need some hot clothing, preferably lingerie, this could be lace, chiffon, pvc or whatever you think would turn your man on. You can also maybe include a couple of sexy costumes in your seduction kit. The kit doesn’t always have to be just one item, your man may indeed like to see you change in and out of outfits, for instance a strip tease. Even though you may be naked after a few moments if the temperatures rise this much, you still need to concentrate on shoes. Some men like thigh high latex boots, some like school girl like plimsolls, some like open toe shoes and others closed toe shoes, you choose but don’t wear your works shoes. Your kit always needs to be items that you only wear when you want to seduce. You can also place in some squirt cream to lick off the body of your partner, a long feather, some long satin and slinky opera gloves, a face mask (like the masks in Venice) and maybe magazines and a video. This reason there are magazines and a video is because you may actually learn something that you didn’t know about your lover. If you look at a magazine or watch a sexy video his likes and dislikes will quickly become apparent. All of these items should be placed in a special seduction bag or box and produced in times when it is highly unlikely you will be interrupted by either family, friends or neighbours knocking at the door.

 

You can start you own kit with lingerie and costume products from lingerie2order.com and get the other items from local or online stores. Good look with your seduction and if you know of another woman in the picture but you would like to keep your man, don’t mention this other woman, just win him back and he will hopefully forget he ever met her.

Why do men have affairs?

Men often stray from their partners be they, wives, girlfriends and even mistresses. The reason for this is pretty simple, the boredom factor. When a woman first meets a man she tends to pretty herself up, put on her best clothes, her finest sexiest lingerie and works on her hair and make-up for what seems like hours. As soon as a woman becomes familiar with her man this familiarity tends to bring dark clouds over the relationship. She still takes care of herself but she neglects to concentrate on her man like she first did when she met him. She tends to see her man as just the guy whom she needs to complain about to her mother, her friends or work colleagues. For a man, if he hears these complaints and sees that his once sexy fox of a lover is now just a moaning minny like her mother and dressing like her too he tends to see this as the spark plug that ignites his passion for another. Of course, when this other woman, whether she be a new wife, lover or mistress, begins to change then he will once again feel nagged, feel not needed and want to jump ship once again. The nagging from a hell bent wife is not the only reason but the lack of emphasis on him being a sexual icon for her is sure to overshadow the love they once had. The mistress, although the same can happen to her, she has a joker up her sleeve. Unless the mistress becomes too attached, she can continue to play the dress-up and be sexy lust game until her lover either runs back to his wife or until she herself gets complacent and bored of him. So how as a wife, girlfriend or mistress do we counteract this moment of boredom that leads our lovers away. Dress sexily in whatever the man wants from your lingerie collection, keep making that special effort with nicely applied make-up and keep informed about his desires and lastly don’t complain about him, he may be a slob now, but you entered into a relationship with that slob. No nagging as well and then you will have a happy highly sexed man on your hands. Only problem then is if he has let himself go, then maybe this slob of a man is not worth keeping. If on the other hand he works out and is full of muscle then keep that guy in the pleasure zone.