You have spent hours dressing up for that special night, the Christmas Party. You have put your make-up on, your best and favourite and recently purchased lingerie, draped over your lingerie is some sexy party dress number you also recently purchased. You are a primed party girl ready for the Christmas party with mistletoe in hand. Ready and willing to get together with the guy at work you always had your eye on. Hoping he thinks the same about you as you do about him. You have to build up the courage to talk with him whether this be via booze or a friends help of supporting you in the hunt. Of course if office romances go wrong ,especially at Christmas time, it can be difficult to come face to face with your special someone immediately after the festive period and if this man is a talker, he probably will tell his friends, “She made a move on me you know!” The embarrassment of him possibly ridiculing you is almost the moment that stops you from your Christmas conquest.
The Xmas party night comes and you decide to go straight for the jugular. You try your best to act like a vampire out of the Twilight saga and bring your prey down with one fell swoop but obviously not biting but making him yours. You entangle in this long meaningful kiss trying to suck him in like a Star Wars tractor beam. He isn’t escaping now you have him by the “eh errm” balls! Your sexy black dress is being pushed up your thighs by his strong manly hands and you feel safe that by the start of the new year you will no longer be a single girl with a crush but the woman who has won her party hottie. You get to hot and decide that the party is too much for you and you need a quieter place to become more involved with the man you have had eyes on since the previous Christmas party. You slip out from a side exit and go to his place or yours and once there you secure the love with a sexual experience that leaves you both hot under the collar and maybe wanting more. So, the night continues with this on and off sexual passion.
The following morning the beer or spirits once out of your system give you the morning after blues, all you can think about is this man and your sexual play. He is the one for you and you want to call him but now you are playing the special game of how long before I call. Around Christmas time, this is made all the more difficult due to family engagements and parties to go to. You may not see him until after the New Year when you are back at work. The first day back at work hoping that he still feels the same way about you, the Christmas songs and alcoholic haze making the night you shared together seem like a million years away. This example is how some marriages begin, it is how some relationships start and end and is how some hearts inevitably get broken. Christmas is a beautiful, magical but sometimes difficult time for love, just enjoy the moment but don’t pay too much attention to what happened until you have a fresh mind in a fresh new year. Have a happy and safe Christmas and New Year. And girls make sure you carry a condom even if he doesn’t, neither diseases or babies at this time of year are welcome presents.
