Why do men have affairs?

Men often stray from their partners be they, wives, girlfriends and even mistresses. The reason for this is pretty simple, the boredom factor. When a woman first meets a man she tends to pretty herself up, put on her best clothes, her finest sexiest lingerie and works on her hair and make-up for what seems like hours. As soon as a woman becomes familiar with her man this familiarity tends to bring dark clouds over the relationship. She still takes care of herself but she neglects to concentrate on her man like she first did when she met him. She tends to see her man as just the guy whom she needs to complain about to her mother, her friends or work colleagues. For a man, if he hears these complaints and sees that his once sexy fox of a lover is now just a moaning minny like her mother and dressing like her too he tends to see this as the spark plug that ignites his passion for another. Of course, when this other woman, whether she be a new wife, lover or mistress, begins to change then he will once again feel nagged, feel not needed and want to jump ship once again. The nagging from a hell bent wife is not the only reason but the lack of emphasis on him being a sexual icon for her is sure to overshadow the love they once had. The mistress, although the same can happen to her, she has a joker up her sleeve. Unless the mistress becomes too attached, she can continue to play the dress-up and be sexy lust game until her lover either runs back to his wife or until she herself gets complacent and bored of him. So how as a wife, girlfriend or mistress do we counteract this moment of boredom that leads our lovers away. Dress sexily in whatever the man wants from your lingerie collection, keep making that special effort with nicely applied make-up and keep informed about his desires and lastly don’t complain about him, he may be a slob now, but you entered into a relationship with that slob. No nagging as well and then you will have a happy highly sexed man on your hands. Only problem then is if he has let himself go, then maybe this slob of a man is not worth keeping. If on the other hand he works out and is full of muscle then keep that guy in the pleasure zone.